Introduction
Oral sex has long been a popular way to please a partner. While there are different ways to approach it, on this article, we will explore how to deliver the best head possible, with tips and techniques that will enhance the experience for both partners.
Start with Communication
The first and most important thing you can do to ensure you deliver the best head possible is communication. Encourage your partner to tell you what feels good and what they enjoy the most. Offer feedback to each other, so you can stay on the same page and improve your technique to mutual satisfaction.
Don’t be afraid to ask what your partner wants and needs, and always be willing to listen to their answer. Paying attention to nonverbal cues like moans or gasps can provide valuable insight into their desires.
Focus on the Tip
The tip, or the frenulum, is a small, sensitive area located on the underside of the penis. Focusing your attention on this area can provide your partner with intense pleasure. Use your tongue, lips, and mouth to stimulate the frenulum in a circular motion, varying your speed and pressure to provide a range of sensations.
Try combining this technique with light suction for even more pleasure. Use your lips to create a seal around the tip of the penis and vary your suction technique for best results.
Suction Technique
Incorporating suction into oral sex can add another level of stimulation for your partner. Use a technique known as ‘deep throat’ where you take as much of the penis deep into your mouth and throat as comfortable and use suction as you move back up.
If you’re not comfortable with that, simply adding small amounts of suction to your technique can enhance the experience. Be sure to start light and gradually increase the suction to discover what your partner can handle.
Explore Different Positions
Exploring different positions can provide new angles and sensations, making oral sex more enjoyable for both partners. Try traditional positions like kneeling or sitting in front of your partner and experiment with other positions like lying down or standing up.
It’s important to feel comfortable, so take your time to find the best position for you. Don’t forget that you can use your hands to explore around the area or even stimulate the perineum or anus.
Timing is Key
Timing is critical when it comes to oral sex. Don’t rush, take your time and pay attention to your partner’s reactions and adjust accordingly. If your partner is very aroused, you may want to speed up the pace a bit. If they’re not as aroused, you may want to slow down and focus on using your mouth and tongue to get them to a more heightened state of pleasure.
Don’t be afraid to take breaks or to switch things up. Experimenting with different techniques, rhythms, positions, and speeds can provide a more satisfying experience.
Don’t Forget the Balls
Often overlooked, the balls are an important part of the male anatomy and should not be ignored during oral sex. Use your hands to rub and massage the scrotum gently while paying attention to your partner’s reaction. To take it up a notch, try using your mouth and tongue to create suction on the testicles.
Conclusion
Giving the best head possible is all about communication, technique, and timing. Encourage your partner to provide feedback so you can continue to improve your technique and explore different sensations and positions. Incorporating techniques like focusing on the tip, using suction, and not forgetting about the balls can add another level of pleasure. Start with the tips outlined in this article and be open to experimenting and trying new things with your partner.